I was going to choose humor but then I realized there is a lot of lowbrow humor that I don't find amusing. I like dry humor, irony and sarcasm. Intelligence and wit together is what makes a person charming. Either one without the other is boring. But you must have intelligence in order to have humor -- in particular emotional intelligence that enables you to laugh at yourself and not be morbidly sensitive. So I chose intelligence.

Even though I value creativity, kindness, and intelligence, I voted humor. That is a sign of intelligence after all, and it is a sort of kindness or compassion, and for sure creativity, to make people laugh. That is the thing that I gravitate towards. I used to go mainly to musical (rock/pop) concerts, now I see comedians mostly.

Boah, that's a hard one. I really hesitate to vote:-) Humor is important, kindness as well. But in the end I have to go with intelligence and deep understanding.